A REAL MAN

A real man doesn’t treat women like a buffet
A real man works on lowering his gaze when beautiful women walk by.
A real man keeps his interactions with women short, cordial and to the point and doesn’t let it go longer so flirting and dirty thoughts can come into the mix. If a man is married, he stays faithful and doesn’t leer his eyes elsewhere – and that includes the TV, the internet and magazines.
A real man is respectful to his wife, both in public and in private.
A real man does not raise his hands to his wife no matter what the case is.
A real man doesn’t point out his wife’s flaws and treat her like a second-class citizen.
A real man treats every female (that isn’t his wife) he comes in contact with in the same way he treats his mother or sister.



REDHA


"Yang kita dapat, tak semestinya kita suka.
Yang kita minta, belum tentu yang terbaik buat kita.
Yang terbaik buat kita, tidak semestinya Allah suka.
Belajarlah redha dengan apa yang kita ada. Kerana itulah yang terbaik buat kita. Walaupun itu bukan yang kita suka."

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